In the end we all want to find our soulmate one day. Well, what better way to do this than by dating, right? And since going Dutch at the buffet isn’t for everyone, it’s possible that one of you spends more money on these dates than the other person does. So if things aren’t working out eventually, is it okay to ask for a reimbursement? Alex’s date did and the opinions on this are divided.
1. Alex’s date texted her the following question.
It’s the audacity for me. pic.twitter.com/YnxV6F5Mor
— Alex (@alexx_colboth) February 25, 2021
2. Some share Alex’s opinion and label this move as ‘not done’.
This is the tackiest thing ever
— Nakia🐼 (@kiaswinton) February 26, 2021
If he wanted his money back he should’ve asked you to split on the first date wtf is this 😭 here i’ll pay for you… oh nevermind can you pay me back LMFAOO what kind of scrooge
— 예자 (@nahtchristine) February 26, 2021
Charge him for the time it took for you to prepare for these 3 dates. That’s valuable time that you could have spent on something else. Time is money baby!!!
— Shlebb (@shlebb_rocks) February 26, 2021
3. While on the other hand people completely understand where he’s coming from.
So let’s say I’m dating a girl and she buys me clothes, or random stuff out of her hard earned money, if I decide to mess around on her or leave you’re saying she’d be unfair to ask for some of the money back since she can’t get the time and energy back?
— Zero X Machina (@Zeroxmachina) February 26, 2021
Or he could be expecting pay next time? Societal expectations/norms can affect men, too. Perhaps he felt the pressure to ‘be a man’ and pay for everything and he couldn’t really afford to.
It is audacious, but not as audacious as allowing someone to pay for everything x3— Eddie Hubbard, Jr (@lyneltamer) February 26, 2021
4. Either way, the comparison this lady makes is nothing but facts.
dating is like gambling. you put your time, money, whatever into it and sometimes it doesn’t workout and you leave empty handed. you made the decision to spend money and now you’re mad you didn’t win? the casino don’t owe you shit.
— Theydie’s Things ✨ (@notneeva) February 26, 2021
5. And that’s what life is.
Perfect comparison- basically you live & you learn only thing to do is move forward 🤷🏾♀️
— ☥ Asé Asé ☥ (@aesblxck) February 26, 2021
6. And Alex? Her latest tweet will say it all.
How I’m going to sleep tonight knowing I still have that $35 pic.twitter.com/KOHfuN6xzj
— Alex (@alexx_colboth) February 26, 2021
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